The Well-trained Dog
When I say “well-trained dog,” I’m talking about a dog that knows what is expected of him/her and makes the choice to be obedient. I'm not talking about a robot that only obeys commands. What I mean is a dog who is trusting and obedient at home, in public, on-leash and off-leash. When your dog is truly well-trained, life together becomes more joyful and less stressful.
A well-trained dog gets to go more places and do more things. That’s a big deal. You can take them to parks, invite company over, go on trips — and instead of worrying about bad behavior, you get to enjoy your time together. In unpredictable, unexpected and even stressful situations your dog trusts your decision and obeys. That’s when training pays off.
It’s Not about Fancy Tools
Let me be clear: it’s not about tools or treats. The foundation of the training is the relationship. A truly well-trained dog results from a good relationship, supported by trustworthy leadership. What matters is how your dog sees you — who you are to your dog is everything.
When your dog trusts, knows what is expected of him and is obedient, you won't need to tolerate bad behaviors, constantly struggle with your dog, or lock your dog away; you can enjoy life and include your dog in it.
Who You Are to Your Dog...
As I always say: who you are to your dog is everything. Your energy, consistency, and the way you communicate builds their world. Being calm, clear and steady is better than being passive, reactive, or inconsistent, and matters more than any trick, tool or treat. Keep these things in mind:
- Be calm and assertive. Assertiveness does NOT mean aggression.
- Be clear. The dog needs to know exactly what you want or be obedient enough to learn in the moment.
- Be consistent. Rules, boundaries and limitations must be enforced by you and repected by you both. Always.
- Be honest and expressive with affection, praise and corrections. It is easier to train a dog who trusts you and appropriately timed affection makes you both feel good.
I’ve watched many dogs and owners transform: walks become more peaceful, guests feel comfortable, dogs relax in new situations, outings become fun. The difference isn’t about perfect obedience; it’s about communication and connection.
Having a well-trained dog isn’t about perfection — it’s about the relationship. With leadership, consistency, trust, and mutual respect your dog learns how to live peacefully and safely in your world, giving both of you the freedom to truly enjoy life together.
Who you are to your dog is EVERYTHING.
Shawn Hines
~ May 27, 2016